Realization

Finally realizing that people say things just to say it. Not meaning anything that they said... but to only put a temporary smile on your face. Someone can easily spit in your face and tell you that it is raining, but it is up to you to believe them or not. Being able to tell the difference between someone actually meaning what they have said and them saying it just because they believe that it would bring them one step closer to getting what they want from you. What I hate is when someone is like oh this my bestie, my wifey, but then when you want to talk to them, whether it is just a simple hello or a full conversation, theirs views change and they don't want to be bothered. All I have to say is say what you mean and mean what you say!! And if you can't then it was all just a waste of breath.